Return-Path: X-Original-To: apmail-couchdb-dev-archive@www.apache.org Delivered-To: apmail-couchdb-dev-archive@www.apache.org Received: from mail.apache.org (hermes.apache.org [140.211.11.3]) by minotaur.apache.org (Postfix) with SMTP id 6B7FF10C38 for ; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 09:24:22 +0000 (UTC) Received: (qmail 67977 invoked by uid 500); 19 Jul 2014 09:24:22 -0000 Delivered-To: apmail-couchdb-dev-archive@couchdb.apache.org Received: (qmail 67920 invoked by uid 500); 19 Jul 2014 09:24:22 -0000 Mailing-List: contact dev-help@couchdb.apache.org; run by ezmlm Precedence: bulk List-Help: List-Unsubscribe: List-Post: List-Id: Reply-To: dev@couchdb.apache.org Delivered-To: mailing list dev@couchdb.apache.org Received: (qmail 67345 invoked by uid 99); 19 Jul 2014 09:24:21 -0000 Received: from nike.apache.org (HELO nike.apache.org) (192.87.106.230) by apache.org (qpsmtpd/0.29) with ESMTP; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 09:24:21 +0000 X-ASF-Spam-Status: No, hits=1.5 required=5.0 tests=HTML_MESSAGE,RCVD_IN_DNSWL_LOW,SPF_PASS X-Spam-Check-By: apache.org Received-SPF: pass (nike.apache.org: domain of bchesneau@gmail.com designates 209.85.219.50 as permitted sender) Received: from [209.85.219.50] (HELO mail-oa0-f50.google.com) (209.85.219.50) by apache.org (qpsmtpd/0.29) with ESMTP; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 09:24:18 +0000 Received: by mail-oa0-f50.google.com with SMTP id g18so4780965oah.37 for ; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 02:23:53 -0700 (PDT) DKIM-Signature: v=1; a=rsa-sha256; c=relaxed/relaxed; d=gmail.com; s=20120113; h=mime-version:in-reply-to:references:from:date:message-id:subject:to :content-type; bh=lYSTh4l3twgDBq0J1JiOHHjK8fDfndMMHoiJ7KQc1DU=; b=W4vreGPfHDlbrD1e9Jbc3fyjIE2pTAzMnmHJ6F8JL5DHB4GfV6cIJ//IJ/Qx2qEA2D 4UPRb1iM81/dFxzCUeetmxzRuO8LJQkTRXUkMXtRVdIU0ShPubg2NFqEnutLR9Ef0v5t RKiyQt7WCYpnipNrH0dPHaVRCoyj73zczMujmq8RkVviMRFdk4IPdl/ILlks0Nqsju67 ejtnsaN6B1PgmmCt5aP2yqI07oRreq6D2ZvWlJaL/Y3h6m6g2N/GlOpEjo1PL0c+AtCy qw9eElq0JUX+hRU6tisNPNHiqZ7LYoTV1gnhp6P8uoGKczAqGAwt0Clo7X5EyDZO6gKA qEgQ== X-Received: by 10.182.213.7 with SMTP id no7mr14915475obc.39.1405761833025; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 02:23:53 -0700 (PDT) MIME-Version: 1.0 Received: by 10.202.58.10 with HTTP; Sat, 19 Jul 2014 02:23:32 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <8FD8BA5F-2405-4EF8-A029-5ABBD8456E87@apache.org> References: <8FD8BA5F-2405-4EF8-A029-5ABBD8456E87@apache.org> From: Benoit Chesneau Date: Sat, 19 Jul 2014 11:23:32 +0200 Message-ID: Subject: Re: [PROPOSAL] Code of conduct - edit of the point 2 To: "dev@couchdb.apache.org" Content-Type: multipart/alternative; boundary=001a11c2f682b249ac04fe886e64 X-Virus-Checked: Checked by ClamAV on apache.org --001a11c2f682b249ac04fe886e64 Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 On Sat, Jul 19, 2014 at 11:13 AM, Jan Lehnardt wrote: > > On 19 Jul 2014, at 11:03 , Benoit Chesneau wrote: > > > Sorry for the delay. I planned to propose that change sooner, but I am > > really busy these days. > > > > > > I don't have access to the confluence website > > You can create an account here: > https://cwiki.apache.org/confluence/signup.action > If you tell us your username, we can give you the correct ACLs. > > Best > Jan > -- > > > OK. Anyway the wiki is not really good to comment / propose a change, so let's discuss here . - benoit. > > > > I see a simple way to > > patch it so here is my proposal on the point 2. I would replace it with: > > > > Be honest, welcoming, friendly, and patient: We work together to resolve > >> conflict, assume good intentions, and do our best to trust each others. > We > >> may all experience some frustration from time to time, but we do not > allow > >> frustration to turn into a personal attack. A community where people > feel > >> uncomfortable or threatened is not a productive one. We should be > >> respectful when dealing with other community members as well as with > people > >> outside our community. > > > > > > > > Note that I replaced empathy (which is a vague concept in many culture) > by > > honesty and trust. Imo the words "honest, welcoming, friendly, and > patient" > > are defining what could be empathy in many cultures and doesn't rely on > > interpretation. The idea came from a conversation with Katie Miller at > the > > EUC, but never had time to post it here... > > > > Thoughts? > > > > - benoit > > --001a11c2f682b249ac04fe886e64--